Talking about sex while dating
I would not consider you as a "friend" at all if you stopped being friends with me when you are in a relationship and then came back when you are single. Because that's not how friendship works in my books and I would resent someone...
To me, it sounds like you don't want friends, you want people who will be the 'females' in your life to talk to when you don't have one of your own.
On a recent date, I told the guy I’m not looking to dive into a sexual relationship.
Her hands reach out to the poor, and she extends her hands to the needy.
She extends her hands to the spinning staff, and her hands hold the spindle.
I loved that the first night he slept over we didn’t have sex, we just cuddled.
I loved it that when we did have sex for the first time and it hurt me, we stopped and that was that.
If you seek to enter into a relationship with an unbeliever not only is it wrong, you will regret it, and you will be hurt. There are so many things in this world that help you deceive yourself. If you’re going to be a leader you have to know the Scriptures to teach God’s daughter. I am not saying that you should not be attracted to the person who you are dating because you should be. Is God working in his life and making him more like Christ? Instead of following your heart, you should follow the Lord. Seek His wisdom, seek guidance, seek clarity, and above all seek His will.