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To make matters worse, most people suck at selling themselves, and do a terrible job of their profiles.And, of course, the ones who good at selling themselves generally do so by misrepresenting themselves to some extent.Nobody’s profile really represents what they’re like in real life.And as a result, you will either underestimate them – and dismiss someone who could be a good match – or else overestimate them and then be disappointed when you meet in person.When you encounter one of these profiles, you haven’t met your ideal partner.You’ve just met someone who is good at telling you what you want to hear.
You’re not looking for the same things you were when you were young: you’re not typically looking to settle down and have kids, for example!You would at least talk to someone before you’d go anywhere near finding out what their pet preferences were …and you’d then use your own judgement about whether you liked them or not.In the US, online dating is now the second most common way for heterosexual couples to meet (behind introductions through friends). After millions of years of human evolution, and thousands of years of the development of human society, humans had settled on the idea that in-person interactions through fun, face-to-face social activities were the best way to meet new people.
And then along came online dating to blow that idea away.
The promise of making it easier to find your “ideal” companion by letting you add filters to hone in on specific requirements has actually had the opposite effect, diminishing your pool to the point it becomes almost impossible to find anyone!