Dating and sex after 50
For many women after the age of 50, if there are children, they are mostly independent.Their career and financial security are more certain.She was 54 and I was 26 at the time (this was 21 years ago).As I write this and think about her even now, I have loving feelings and am on my way to erection : ) We saw each other over a period of 3 months, and the emotional intimacy combined with our sexual activities made for an absolutely wonderful and memorable experience!we are about lose our marriage over this sex problem..What to do I came across this article cruising through Psychology Today, and thought of one of the most sensual and erotic sexual experiences I have ever had.Women at 50 are no longer fighting to establish a marriage, a career, or a family.They are ready to do something different and their focus has suddenly begun to center on their relationship with their own sexuality.
This emerging interest in sex life often results in the best sex they have ever had.
Despite this, and probably to "Laurel's" disappointment, I do not want to go "f**k something" - at least, not something other than my wife. There are many things about physical intimacy that don't have to be intercourse or orgasm.
And frankly, the older I get, the more important things are physical touch, physical contact - comforting, nurturing, soothing.
Women need to discover that their job in bed is no longer about getting the partner off efficiently and neatly.
When they learn to speak their own desires (not an easy thing to learn if they don't really know what they are), they are able to invite their partners into their pleasure.There is a willingness in a woman over 50 to finally let go of the myths that may have haunted her for her entire life.She may be ready to let go of long-held body image issues, trauma, and wounds from past heartaches or failed relationships, and even abuse.It can involve new adventures, brand new experiences, and the fresh freedom of erotic autonomy ready and ripe for exploration. I am having the most sensual mind boggling physical loving affair, ever!!! Having sex with the same partner after many years can be like having the same breakfast everyday plus an grumpy husband or a nagging wife add on top of that, it's better just to read a book in bed. Now he wants sex 3 times a day and because of health issues and no libido it has become a problem..