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I wanted to take control of my life and smile again. As striking as this blonde-hair, blue-eyed guy was, he just wasn't stable enough for me. But OKCupid, e Harmony — none of them felt quite right for me.
A few weeks after signing the divorce papers, I jumped right back into the dating game with a 29-year-old I had met at a work function. By then, I was 50 with three kids and unwavering aspirations of getting my MBA. I went on a few dates here and there, but mostly they were just … It wasn't just because the men didn't look like their profile pictures.
But one thing was for sure: With his dark hair, piercing blue eyes and 6'5" frame, I was definitely attracted to him.
Given the very proper, business-like nature of our first date, I was caught off-guard when he asked me to go get breakfast a couple of days later.
But over time, I felt myself becoming more like a nanny and less like his wife.
Foreplay felt like a chore, and eventually we weren't having sex at all.
The questions were surface-level (like, do you prefer romantic comedies or horror movies?While exploring that question, I came across Seeking Arrangement.com, a website designed to pair sugar babies with sugar daddies or mommas.Now here was something different; something I never, ever thought I would discover. But a part of me was very curious — too curious to ignore.I wasn't really sure how to read him, and I'm usually pretty good at that.
After some brief small-talk (you know, the typical what-are-your-hobbies-what-are-you-looking-for chitchat), we set up a coffee date.
I learned that he had two children and was separated, largely because he and his wife weren't intimate enough. He was looking for someone who was sexy, confident and stable, which he wasn't finding by dating younger women. After my past experience with the 29-year-old, I was worried that he might not be on my maturity level.